A senior panel examines why genuine leadership transparency is rarely about honesty – and almost always about whether it lands clearly with the people receiving it.
Openness is a posture. Transparency is an outcome. A leader can be completely available and willing to share – and still not create the experience of transparency in the people around them. What matters is not what is transmitted. It is what is received.
Session Summary
This session is the final in a three-part Disruptive Business Leadership series on transparency. Hosted by Lynnaire Johnston – executive visibility strategist and founder of Link·Ability – it brings together four senior practitioners to examine what genuine leadership transparency looks like not in principle, but in practice.
The panel includes Melanie Richards (hybrid event strategist certified in trust), Martin Stark (keynote speaker, author, and courage champion), Roy Kowarski (strategic exhibition partner), Felipe Cofino (executive search and recruitment specialist), and Ilya Francis (corporate leadership practitioner). Each brings a distinct professional lens to a question that sits at the heart of how leaders are trusted and remembered.
The conversation is particularly relevant today because the gap between intending to be transparent and being experienced as transparent is one of the most consistent – and most overlooked – challenges in senior leadership. This session explores that gap through four themes: the disconnect between intention and experience, consistency as the foundation of trust, the willingness to acknowledge what is real, and what happens to transparency when leaders are under pressure.
For leaders interested in understanding how their presence is interpreted – by their teams, their networks, and increasingly by AI systems – a Link·Ability Executive Visibility Review offers a practical starting point.
Introduction
Transparency has become one of the most discussed qualities in modern leadership. It features in culture surveys, development programmes, and team feedback processes. Most leaders would say they value it. Many would say they practise it. And yet teams still feel uninformed, stakeholders still feel uncertain, and people continue to fill gaps with assumptions.
The problem is rarely a lack of intention. It is a gap between what leaders believe they are communicating and what others are actually experiencing. In an environment where leaders are assessed not just by their direct teams but by wider stakeholders, hiring panels, and AI systems reading for consistency and credibility, that gap has become more consequential than ever.
This discussion examines the behaviours, habits, and signals that either build or erode the experience of transparency over time – and what leaders can do to close the gap between how they intend to show up and how they are actually received.
Who This Transcript Is For
◼ Senior leaders who want to close the gap between how they intend to communicate and how they are actually experienced
◼ Executives navigating trust and credibility in complex or high-stakes environments
◼ Leaders building or rebuilding trust within their teams or organisations
◼ Professionals preparing for board-level roles or executive transitions where reputation and presence are scrutinised
◼ Anyone responsible for how their organisation, team, or work is understood by others
Key Insights From This Session
◼ The gap between a leader's intention to be transparent and how it is experienced by others is almost always invisible to the leader – they leave confident they have communicated, while the team leaves with a different story.
◼ Transparency is a pattern, not a declaration. A single transparent moment does not build trust; the pattern of behaviour over time is what creates credibility.
◼ Silence is never neutral. When leaders go quiet – under pressure, or when the message is difficult – that silence is interpreted, rarely generously.
◼ Openness is a posture. Transparency is an outcome. A leader can be completely available and willing to share, and still not create the experience of transparency in the people around them.
◼ In an AI-shaped world, what a leader writes, publishes, and engages with online has become part of how their transparency is assessed – by stakeholders, hiring panels, and AI systems alike.
Topics Covered in This Discussion
◼ The gap between intention and experience – and why it tends to be invisible to the leader
◼ Radical transparency as a framework for trust
◼ Consistency as the foundation of credible leadership
◼ What happens when leaders piecemeal information and teams fill the gaps with assumption
◼ Acknowledging hidden truths – the transparency skill most leadership training skips
◼ The dogma and the drama – dominant narratives that replace genuine transparency under pressure
◼ How leaders signal credibility or evasion through how they handle difficult questions
◼ Transparency under pressure – what leaders reveal when habits are tested
◼ How digital presence and online engagement have become transparency signals
◼ AI and the shift from transparency as a value to transparency as a professional necessity
Main Questions Explored
◼ Why do well-intentioned leaders still leave people feeling uninformed or uncertain?
◼ What is the difference between being open and being experienced as transparent?
◼ What does a leader have to do to maintain consistency when the easiest option is to go quiet?
◼ What stops leaders from naming what is actually happening in a room, even when they genuinely want to?
◼ How do leaders signal evasion – and what does that cost them in terms of team trust?
◼ From a hiring perspective, how much of a leader's reputation is based on actual delivery versus perceived delivery?
◼ How does transparency under pressure differ from transparency in stable conditions?
◼ What is the single most practical thing a leader can do to be experienced as transparent, not just claim to be?
About the Speakers
Lynnaire Johnston – Host
Lynnaire Johnston is an executive visibility strategist and founder of Link·Ability, based in New Zealand. She helps senior leaders ensure their presence – online and offline – reflects their level of expertise, authority, and influence. Her work focuses specifically on AI discoverability, semantic visibility, and the gap between how leaders are interpreted and how they intend to be understood.
Melanie Richards – Panellist
Melanie Richards is a hybrid event conversion strategist certified in trust. She works with leaders and organisations to create conversations, collaborations, and modern workforces in environments that span in-person, virtual, and hybrid contexts. Her expertise in group dynamics and the unspoken dimensions of communication makes her a distinctive voice in discussions about how transparency lands in real-time environments.
Martin Stark – Panellist
Martin Stark is a keynote speaker, author, and self-described courage champion. His work focuses on leadership, resilience, and the adaptability required to lead through uncertainty. He is the author of Courage, Your Right Hook and is currently completing a novel, The Doctor's Worst Patients. Martin brings storytelling and the psychology of fear to his analysis of how leaders communicate under pressure.
Roy Kowarski – Panellist
Roy Kowarski is a strategic exhibition partner who helps organisations navigate every aspect of their exhibition and trade show presence – from strategy and stand design through to preparedness and outcome frameworks. He brings a grounded perspective on positioning, perception, and the gap between how leaders present themselves and how they are interpreted by others.
Felipe Cofino – Panellist
Felipe Cofino works in executive search, hiring, and recruitment. He brings an external assessor's lens to questions of leadership reputation, consistency, and credibility – drawing on years of evaluating how leaders are perceived by others, how their track records are read and communicated, and what signals matter most when leadership is being assessed before any formal conversation takes place.
Ilia Francis – Panellist
Ilia Francis brings experience from inside large organisations, offering a practitioner's perspective on internal communication, decision-making under pressure, and the leadership behaviours that either build or erode trust at scale. His contribution focuses on what genuine transparency looks like from within complex organisational structures.
Why This Conversation Matters Now
Leadership transparency has always mattered. What has changed is how it is assessed, and by whom.
Historically, a leader's transparency was judged primarily by the people in the room with them – their team, their stakeholders, their direct reports. Today, the audience is wider and less forgiving. Professional networks, hiring panels, and AI systems are all forming views about a leader's credibility and consistency based on signals that the leader may not even be aware they are sending.
A LinkedIn profile that has not been updated in two years sends a signal. A pattern of engagement that disappears when the topic becomes difficult sends a signal. An executive who publishes thoughtful content in good times but goes quiet when the market shifts sends a signal. None of these are neutral. They are being read and interpreted – by people and by AI alike.
The conversation in this session is therefore not just about internal leadership communication. It is about understanding that how a leader shows up online is now part of how their transparency is assessed – and that the same principles that apply in a team meeting apply to their digital presence.
Expert Insights From This Conversation
◼ Genuine transparency requires psychological bravery – the willingness to name what is real, not just what is comfortable or strategically safe to share.
◼ When leaders provide information piecemeal, their teams fill the gaps with worry rather than fact – creating anxiety about situations that may not exist.
◼ The gap between what a leader believes they have communicated and what their team has actually received is almost always invisible to the leader.
◼ Under pressure, leaders default to their habits. Clarity is a daily practice, not a crisis tool – it must be built before it is needed.
◼ In the AI era, transparency is no longer simply a leadership virtue. It is a professional necessity – one that is increasingly assessed through digital presence, consistency of engagement, and the record a leader builds over time.
Full Transcript
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Below is the full conversation from the Disruptive Business Leadership session titled What Leadership Transparency Actually Looks Like in Practice. The transcript has been lightly edited for readability while preserving the meaning and voice of the discussion. You can also watch the replay above. |
Roy Kowarski
Welcome, everyone. Today is definitely disruptive business leadership – we had our own disruption to start things off. We are always thrilled to have our special guest Lynnaire join us on the last Saturday of the month. Over to you, Lynnaire.
Lynnaire Johnston
Thank you, Roy, and hello everyone. Good morning from New Zealand. Here in New Zealand – and parts of Australia – we are marking Anzac Day today, and that is a special occasion for all of us as we remember those who gave their lives in previous conflicts.
Before we start on today's topic, I'd like to run quickly around the room so everyone has a chance to introduce themselves. Mel, we'll start with you.
Melanie Richards
Hello to everyone joining us live and on replay. My name is Mel. I am certified in trust, and I am a hybrid event conversion strategist who inspires leaders to create conversations, collaborations, and modern workforces in our fragile AI world. Thank you for the opportunity to join you today.
Lynnaire Johnston
Lovely to have you with us as always, Mel. Martin.
Martin Stark
Good morning, everybody. I'm Martin Stark, the courage champion. I'm a keynote speaker on leadership, courage, and resilience, and author of a novel called The Doctor's Worst Patients – which I'm currently about a quarter of the way through writing.
Lynnaire Johnston
That sounds like a book worth waiting for. Roy.
Roy Kowarski
Thank you. I've been transitioning from the Promotional Product Disruptor to Your Strategic Exhibition Partner, which better reflects the full range of what I do. The framework I've built covers everything from merch to stand design to strategy – and it helps companies who arrive at an exhibition with a stand and then ask, now what? That is where I come in. I look forward to this final session on transparency with Lynnaire leading today.
Lynnaire Johnston
Thank you, Roy. And I'm Lynnaire Johnston, based in New Zealand. I'm an executive visibility strategist – which means I help senior leaders be discovered and surfaced by AI, whether they're seeking board appointments, career advancement, thought leadership recognition, or speaking opportunities. Being found by AI is a skill all of its own in the world we now live in, and that's the angle I bring to today's conversation.
As Roy said, this is the final session in our transparency series. We're looking today at what leadership transparency actually looks like in practice. I'm sure all of you will recognise the experience of leaving a meeting having said what you believed was clear – only to find later that everyone took away a different message. What we want to do today is examine how that happens, and what leaders can do differently.
Most leaders believe they are transparent. The question is whether those around them experience it in the same way. That gap between what is intended and what is received is where trust is won or lost.
Theme 1 – The Gap Between Intention and Experience
Lynnaire Johnston
Mel, you work in environments where what is unspoken is often as powerful as what is said. Have you ever been in a room where a leader thought they had been completely transparent and the people around them experienced something completely different? What creates that disconnect?
Melanie Richards
I think a couple of things create that disconnect. One is the gap between internal and external narrative – our body language, our eyes, our movements sometimes communicate something our words don't intend. We see it occasionally with leaders in the media: they say something, someone shares it back, and they say, I never meant that.
I'd frame this through what I think of as radical transparency – a term I came across recently from Ennie Osung in response to a conversation about a book by Aris Yo called Authenticity Unveiled. The idea is that genuine transparency requires what Martin would call psychological bravery. It's the intentionality of really showing up, not just performing openness. That, for me, is the trust lens through which to frame this conversation.
Lynnaire Johnston
I love that phrase – radical transparency. One of the things I find striking when I think about this is how often the disconnect is invisible to the leader. They leave the room confident they have communicated, but the team leaves with a completely different story. What tends to bridge that gap is acknowledgement – naming what is real, even when it is uncomfortable. Martin, in your experience, what stops a leader from being as transparent as they intend to be, even when they genuinely want to be?
Martin Stark
There's politics at play, I find. And I'll illustrate it with a story. The leader who is spinning a yarn rather than actually sharing what they can share – because leaders can't always share everything – is creating distance. What matters is sharing what you can, clearly and honestly, rather than crafting a version that protects the image.
The key insight is this: if a leader's communication disconnects from what everyone else in the room is observing, the dominant narrative will not come from the leader. It will come from whoever speaks loudest – and that is rarely the most accurate version.
Lynnaire Johnston
Leaders are increasingly being read long before any formal conversation happens, and that reading is happening in digital environments – by people who have never met them, using signals they may not know they're sending. Roy, you help leaders understand the gap between how they present themselves and how they're interpreted by others. Where does that show up most clearly when transparency is involved?
Roy Kowarski
There are a number of things at play. Martin mentioned the fear factor last week – and I think that is significant. Leaders who are not secure within themselves portray that insecurity to the group. And when that happens, it affects the trust of the group. The challenge is helping leaders understand that the more transparent they are, the more trust they generate – and the more that trust grows, the more the team moves forward together rather than in isolated directions.
I have worked with many leaders over the years who, once they start to genuinely understand that transparency and trust are connected, begin to lead in a fundamentally different way.
Lynnaire Johnston
We've all worked with people we believed were trustworthy, only to find later that wasn't quite the case. That's a difficult road. Felipe, from a hiring and executive search perspective – when you are assessing a leader, how much of what you're evaluating is their actual track record, and how much is whether that record has been clearly understood and communicated by others?
Felipe Cofino
When I'm thinking about someone's potential, I don't put everything on their past history. I want to see them for what they're worth in the present. A good past gives additional credibility, but I want to form my own view first.
One of the best things I hear from a new leader joining a team is: don't tell me your opinion of anyone. Let me form my own. That gives them a genuinely fresh perspective – because someone who was asking what others saw as silly questions five years ago may be the sharpest thinker in the room today. The lesson is: take the information you have, keep your eyes open, but don't let it pre-judge someone.
Theme 2 – Consistency as the Foundation of Trust
Lynnaire Johnston
Transparency is not a single moment or a single statement. It is a pattern. And it is the pattern – not the declaration – that builds trust over time. Mel, when a leader is transparent in good times but goes quiet under pressure, how quickly does that erode the trust they've built, and how hard is it to recover?
Melanie Richards
Three things come to mind when I think about consistency. There is consistency of action, consistency of thought, and consistency of presence – which we've discussed in previous sessions. Trust is an emotion. It is an energy. And our energy changes. Our emotions change.
The challenge for leaders is that they are operating in fluctuating conditions they cannot fully control. The lighting changes, the mood shifts, external events intrude. What matters is how they respond to that fluctuation. Consistent emotional regulation – showing up with the same quality of attention and clarity regardless of what is happening around them – is what makes trust durable rather than conditional.
Lynnaire Johnston
Martin, what does it take for a leader to maintain consistency under pressure, when the easiest thing would be to go quiet, soften the message, or simply change direction?
Martin Stark
The pain of not doing it is greater than the discomfort of doing it. When a leader avoids delivering a difficult or uncomfortable message, the team doesn't experience relief. They experience confusion and frustration – because they had to find out the hard way.
Yesterday I hadn't passed a petrol station for a few weeks. From reading the media I expected prices to be dramatically higher than they were. The actual situation was significantly better than the story I had constructed from incomplete information. That is what happens when the message is unclear – people don't assume the best. They assume the worst. A leader who communicates with clarity and consistency removes that space for catastrophising.
Lynnaire Johnston
That is a really good example of how the media operates – and it applies directly to leadership. In the absence of clear communication, people don't fill the space with patience. They fill it with the worst-case version. Felipe, has a leader's reputation for consistency – or the lack of it – ever been a decisive factor in whether they were considered for a role or recommended to a board?
Felipe Cofino
Absolutely. When you're at a certain level of career, consistency in performance and behaviour is expected. Early in someone's career, inconsistency is part of the learning process. At an executive level, it raises serious questions.
When leaders give information piecemeal, their teams fill the gaps with worry. They're not assuming things are fine. They're assuming the worst. And that lack of clarity opens up uncertainty that is almost never in the leader's favour. I think about the port scenario some of you mentioned – open, not open, open, not open. I don't believe anything you say anymore. My trust in your communication is gone, and it takes sustained consistency to rebuild it.
Lynnaire Johnston
Roy, you've spoken before about the power of making shared understanding visible – written down, on the board, where everyone can see it. How does that principle apply more broadly to how leaders build trust through consistency?
Roy Kowarski
The biggest aspect of leadership and transparency, for me, is consistently involving the team. Everything we do comes through communication. And transparency is built over time – that's why it's consistent.
When a leader brings shared understanding into the room and makes it visible – written down, visible to everyone – a few important things happen. Everyone sees each other's ideas. The leader's position is strengthened because they are demonstrating that they value the team's input. And when people see their own thoughts physically in front of them, they buy into the decision. They are part of it. That, for me, is the ultimate form of transparent leadership: each member of the group has genuinely contributed to the direction they are now expected to follow.
Lynnaire Johnston
What Roy is describing is a way of externalising shared understanding – making it visible so it doesn't drift. And the same principle applies online. What a leader writes, publishes, and engages with over time becomes the record. That record is what people and AI systems are reading when they assess whether someone is a credible, trusted authority.
Theme 3 – Acknowledging What Is Real
Lynnaire Johnston
There is a version of transparency that most leadership training skips entirely – the willingness to name what is actually happening in a room, a team, or a situation. Not the polished version. The real one. Mel, you have a gift for acknowledging what's real in a room – the hidden truths that everyone can feel but no one is naming. What does it look like when a leader does that well, and what tends to happen when they do?
Melanie Richards
I have had three situations I could draw on here, and the common thread through all of them is this: the leader on the stage or at the front of the room was disconnected from what was actually happening in the room. They had an image of how things were going to unfold, and when something shifted – a change in temperature, an unexpected dynamic, an emotion in the room – they stayed in the channel they had planned for rather than adjusting.
The most important thing a leader can do in those moments is simply acknowledge it. At one event I hosted, the stage lighting made the temperature for presenters dramatically different from the temperature for the audience. Some people were in winter coats. Others had taken off their jackets. Rather than pretend it wasn't happening, I kept naming it – and it became the running thread of connection for the day. What could have been a source of discomfort became a shared experience that brought people together.
Some things I cannot share even in a journal. But the principle is consistent: acknowledging what's in the room does not destabilise it. It almost always does the opposite.
Lynnaire Johnston
Martin, you talk about the dogma and the drama as the two forces that tend to dominate under pressure. What does a leader have to do to name what's actually happening rather than let those narratives take over?
Martin Stark
Yesterday I was at an event and someone known for driving the dogma narrative was present. At the end there were two exits – the main entrance where there were cameras and the opportunity to be interviewed, and a quieter passage at the back. I chose the quieter passage, because I did not want to engage in that conversation.
My point is this: the dogma – we've done this before, this isn't going to work – and the drama – what if this happens, what's going to go wrong – are the dominant narratives that fill the space when leaders don't name the reality clearly. As a leader, you need to be able to address those voices directly. Listen to what is behind them, because sometimes there is something genuine that hasn't been said. But if someone simply refuses to engage constructively, they cannot be allowed to set the agenda. Otherwise your best people will quietly leave rather than work through the noise.
Lynnaire Johnston
What you've done there is place us inside the experience rather than simply stating a position. A leader who says they are committed to something is making a claim. A leader who shows you what that commitment looked like in a real and difficult moment is creating evidence. Evidence is what builds belief. Felipe, when you do reference checks or informal conversations about a leader, what do people tend to reveal when they speak candidly – and what does that tell you about whether a leader is genuinely transparent or performing it?
Felipe Cofino
Less is not always more in reference conversations. When someone says very little about a leader, it is usually not a positive sign. And there is a pattern I recognise – when you hear phrases like but they also do this, but they also do this – repeated two or three times – it usually means someone is trying to mask a leadership issue by adding positives around it.
Genuine transparency with a team creates a very different dynamic. When a leader shares their weaknesses honestly – when they say, this is not my strength, I need your support here – the team is able to have their back. That depth of trust is something that leaders who perform confidence rarely achieve. I'll give an example from my own experience: I know that spelling and grammar are not my strengths, and I ask for a second eye on anything important. That is not weakness. That is leadership.
That said, there is a level of caution required depending on the audience. A board of directors sits at a remove from day-to-day operations. Too much transparency in that context can open up questions that invite problems. Like explaining where babies come from to a young child – the honest answer exists, but the timing and calibration matter.
Lynnaire Johnston
Ilya, what does it look like when a leader inside a large organisation is genuinely willing to acknowledge what is not working, and what tends to happen as a result?
Ilia Francis
That willingness is the foundation of real teamwork. It gives the organisation the true perspective it needs – to understand where things are, and to find the correct trajectory forward. When a leader says we made a mistake, I am taking responsibility, and we are going to do better – that is when the team understands that accountability is real and not performative.
The political dimension is always present in large organisations. Not everyone is ready for the full picture at the same time. But the leaders who acknowledge what is not working – and who do so in a way that opens conversation rather than closing it down – tend to get far more genuine engagement from their teams than those who manage the message.
Lynnaire Johnston
Roy, from your experience working with leaders on how they are positioned and perceived, what is the single most practical thing a leader can do to be experienced as transparent – not just say they are?
Roy Kowarski
Lead from the front. In transparency, in trust, in showing people that you make mistakes and that is acceptable. One of the biggest difficulties leaders face is the fear of making mistakes – so they try to be perfect. But I have never strived for perfection in my business life. I strive to be better. And when you are consistently trying to be better, the people around you see that and respond to it.
I look at the people in a team and I ask: where are the strengths, and where are the gaps? I amplify the strengths and I support the gaps. What that does is make every person in the team feel that they have something to contribute – and that they are not alone with what they find difficult. If you can put those pieces together well, you are a good leader.
Lynnaire Johnston
To summarise this section: openness is a posture. Transparency is an outcome. You can be completely available and willing to share, and still not create the experience of transparency in the people around you. That requires thinking about what they receive, not just what you transmit. And that is a skill we can all develop, whether or not we are currently in a formal leadership role.
Theme 4 – Transparency Under Pressure
Lynnaire Johnston
The real test of transparent leadership is not what happens in stable conditions. It is what happens under pressure – time pressure, stakeholder pressure, visibility pressure – when the gap between intention and behaviour tends to show up most clearly. Mel, in live environments and high-stakes moments, what happens to a leader's transparency when things are not going to plan, and what separates those who hold it together from those who don't?
Melanie Richards
Under pressure, it can be a coin flip between the leader who is trust-willing and the leader who is genuinely trustworthy. The question is: how do we respond when things don't go according to the playbook? Hopefully with grace, with kindness, with discernment. With the kind of communication that you would want heard by everyone in the room, not just the people you intended it for.
At events, there are always moments where something goes wrong and there is an open mic somewhere, or a behind-the-scenes conversation that carries further than expected. The choice of where and how to have a difficult conversation matters as much as the content of the conversation itself.
Lynnaire Johnston
Under pressure, you default to your habits. If that habit is clarity, clarity appears. If the habit is avoidance, that appears instead. This is something we need to be building before the crisis, not during it. Martin, when a leader receives a setback – a rejection, a strategy that didn't land, a moment where things went visibly wrong – how do they use transparency to rebuild credibility rather than lose the room?
Martin Stark
There are two recipes here – one for disaster, one for success. When I was twelve, we had cookery at school and I had to make a pizza. I don't like cheese, and I overcompensated with every topping I could find. I stunk the kitchen out. The teacher opened all the windows. My mother tried to eat it and said it was like a rainforest disaster.
Two weeks later, I made a sponge cake and got ten out of ten. The difference was the recipe – one I was comfortable with, that I followed precisely. As a leader, you need to be able to work through the uncomfortable recipes too. You don't have to enjoy the difficult conversation or the hard message. But working through it is what the team needs, and avoiding it leaves everyone worse off.
Lynnaire Johnston
Courage and clarity are the same quality in different circumstances. What makes transparency hard under pressure is usually not not knowing the truth. It is not being sure how the truth will be received. The leaders who handle this well have made a decision in advance about what kind of leader they want to be known as – and it is that prior commitment that carries them through the uncomfortable moments. Ilya, what signals do leaders unintentionally send when they're under pressure, and how does that affect the team around them?
Ilia Francis
It is obvious. When a leader is in front of a group and the questions being asked are being circled rather than addressed – going around the problem instead of into it – the audience sees it immediately. It is evident that the person does not want to answer, or does not have an answer that will satisfy the group. That creates friction. It can mean the results expected don't materialise. And it erodes trust in ways that are very difficult to repair.
We see it in political interviews – the journalist asks one clear question, and the response goes on tangents that never reach the answer. This is what happens when the communications instinct is self-protective rather than clarifying. The best corporate communications teams understand this: their job in a crisis is to create a sense of control, not to manage the impression. Say what is happening, say what you are doing about it, and say it clearly.
Lynnaire Johnston
Felipe, from an executive assessment perspective – how much of what you're evaluating is how a leader performs under pressure? And how do you distinguish between someone who is genuinely calm and someone who has simply learned to appear calm?
Felipe Cofino
At an entry level, I expect nerves in an interview and I work to put people at ease. At the executive level, the expectation is different. Under pressure is exactly when leadership shows – and the most reliable way to assess it is through storytelling. What did you do when things went wrong? Walk me through it.
COVID was a significant test. You saw clearly which leaders rose under pressure and which crumbled. One CEO I know began hearing early signals about a potential crisis months before it became real – and ran a quiet test to see if the company could operate remotely. By the time they needed it, it was already proven. Under pressure, he continued personally calling every member of staff at least once every two weeks to check how they were managing. Not about the business. About them. That is emotional intelligence in practice. That is what a leader looks like when they have made the decision in advance about who they want to be.
The short answer: leadership is not a title. It is a responsibility. And those who want all the credit without the responsibility tend to become visible under pressure.
Lynnaire Johnston
How a leader handles pressure is one of the most powerful visibility assets they have. If they handle it well – and are seen to do so – that builds lasting credibility. The challenge is that most leaders under pressure focus entirely on managing the situation, and forget that they are also being observed managing themselves. Both things happen simultaneously. But the people watching tend to remember the second one longer. Roy, when leaders come through a period of real pressure – a difficult business challenge, a moment where things didn't go as planned – how does the way they handle it tend to shape how they are perceived afterwards? What makes the difference between coming through stronger versus damaged?
Roy Kowarski
My answer comes back to two C words: confidence and calmness. A team is always looking for confidence and calmness from their leader. When a leader creates chaos under pressure, they bring chaos into the team. When a leader shows calmness under pressure, they keep the team focused on solutions.
In my experience of working with leaders, and of being in leadership roles myself, the ones who come through stronger are the ones who say: this is the problem. It is not going to change. Let's focus on the solution. Let's talk about what our options are. That is where genuine leadership shows through. Leaders who dwell on the problem keep the team in the problem. Leaders who move toward the solution take the team with them.
Lynnaire Johnston
How a leader handles pressure is one of the most powerful visibility assets they have. But most leaders focus entirely on managing the situation – and forget they are also being observed managing themselves. The people watching tend to remember the second one longer.
Final Insights
Melanie Richards
Transparent truths really do exist. It is a choice – a selection – how we show up. Whether we show up with quiet presence, calm, or confidence. Whether we invite emerging leaders to model the behaviours alongside us, or whether we close the gates and take a pause. The opportunity is always there.
Ilia Francis
We are the owners of what we keep, and a slave of what we say. The filter we apply should always depend on where we are and who we are talking to. Make sure that whatever comes out is for the betterment of everybody in the room.
Felipe Cofino
Truth and transparency have always been valuable qualities in leadership. In today's world of AI, deep fakes, and widespread questions about authenticity, they have become a necessity. Leaders who can demonstrate genuinely who they are have a significant advantage. Transparency is no longer optional. It is a requirement.
Roy Kowarski
Leaders need to focus on inspiring their teams. If you can inspire your team, you get the best out of them. That is where every other quality – including transparency – ultimately points.
Lynnaire Johnston
We heard about rising tides lifting all boats, radical transparency, and the idea that what a leader says and does consistently is the signal that matters most. Thank you to Melanie, Martin, Roy, Felipe, and Ilya – and to everyone who joined us live and in the comments today. This has been a genuinely rich conversation, and I look forward to the next one.
Frequently Asked Questions
- What is the difference between being open and being transparent as a leader?
Openness is a posture – a willingness to share and engage. Transparency is an outcome – the experience of clarity and trust that others receive as a result. A leader can be completely open and still not create the experience of transparency, because what matters is not what is transmitted but what is received. The skill is in understanding what the people around you are actually taking away from your communication, not just what you intended them to take away.
- How does leadership transparency affect how a leader is assessed in executive hiring?
At executive level, consistency is expected. Leaders who communicate piecemeal, go quiet under pressure, or have a gap between their stated values and their observable behaviour raise significant concerns in assessment processes. Reference conversations often reveal the gap between how a leader presents themselves and how they are actually experienced – and experienced assessors know how to read what is not being said as much as what is.
- Why do leaders often believe they are transparent when their teams experience something different?
The gap between intention and experience is almost always invisible to the leader. They leave a conversation or meeting confident they have communicated clearly, while the team leaves with a different understanding. This is compounded by the fact that at senior levels, fewer people are willing to tell a leader what was actually heard. Without deliberate checking – asking what people understood, not just what was said – the gap can widen for a long time before something breaks.
- How is AI changing what leadership transparency means in practice?
AI systems are increasingly reading a leader's digital presence for consistency, clarity, and topic authority. What a leader publishes, engages with, and leaves unaddressed online has become part of how their credibility is assessed – before any formal conversation takes place. The same principles that apply in a room apply online: silence creates interpretation gaps, inconsistency erodes trust, and a clear and consistent record builds authority over time.
- What is the most practical thing a leader can do to be experienced as more transparent?
The panel pointed to several practical approaches: naming what is actually happening in a room rather than managing the impression; making shared understanding visible and agreed by the whole group; communicating consistently – not just in good times; and acknowledging weaknesses honestly enough for the team to help compensate for them. The underlying principle is consistent: think about what is being received, not just what is being transmitted.
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The gap between how leaders intend to show up and how they are actually experienced is one of the most consistent themes in this conversation – and it applies as much to digital presence as it does to the room.
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